Weekly Death Café

Meaningful conversations about life, death, and what matters most.

What is a Death Café?

A Death Café is a gathering of people who come together to have meaningful conversations about death, dying, and how to live well. We sit in a circle, over tea and light refreshments, and share our thoughts, experiences, and questions about life's biggest topics.

Death Cafés aren't about grief counseling or crisis intervention. They're about normalizing conversations that our culture often avoids, creating space for the kinds of profound questions that matter: What makes a life meaningful? How do we want to be remembered? What brings us comfort as we face our own mortality?

These gatherings are welcoming to everyone—regardless of age, background, belief, or experience. Whether you're facing end-of-life decisions, processing loss, or simply curious about these conversations, you belong here.

Welcoming Death Café circle with people gathered in conversation

Who Should Come?

You might be interested if:

  • You're navigating end-of-life planning
  • You're processing grief or loss
  • You want to explore meaning and legacy
  • You're curious about these conversations
  • You seek community and connection

All are welcome:

  • Any age or background
  • Any belief or worldview
  • Those facing death or living fully
  • Those grieving or remembering
  • First-timers and regular participants

What to Expect

🕐 Duration

Each gathering typically lasts 90 minutes—enough time to settle in, share, and reflect without feeling rushed.

🧋 Atmosphere

Comfortable seating arranged in a circle, tea and light refreshments, and a peaceful, welcoming space designed for meaningful conversation.

💬 The Conversation

Mary will share opening reflections, then invite the circle to share thoughts, questions, and stories. Participation is always optional—you can simply listen if you prefer.

🤝 Community

This is a judgment-free zone where all perspectives are honored. What's shared in the café stays in the café—confidentiality is sacred.

Schedule & Details

Frequency: Gatherings occur weekly, creating regular opportunities to connect and explore these meaningful conversations.

Location: Based in Moriarty, NM and serving surrounding communities. Specific meeting location details are shared upon RSVP.

Time: Contact Mary for current dates, times, and any special themed gatherings coming up.

Cost: Free and open to everyone. No registration required, but RSVPs help us prepare.

For current dates, times, and location details, please contact Mary directly.

Ready to Join Us?

Whether you're a longtime seeker or exploring these conversations for the first time, we'd love to have you join our Death Café circle.

Contact Mary for Details

Have questions about Death Cafés? Want to know more before attending? Reach out—Mary is always happy to chat and answer your questions.